Safe words, safe practice
On a few social media sites lately, I have seen questions come up about safe-words. I honestly wish I didn't need to address this subject. It would be great if anyone practicing kink did so with a full dedication to safety and consent. Unfortunately, from some of the toxic stuff I have seen online, it seems clear that this is not the case. On Twitter, on Reddit and on TikTok, It feels like there are more people with questions and concerns about safe-words, if they need them, when they should be used, when they should be honored. I can answer all of that very quickly before we go on. Yes, you need a safe-word, You should use them whenever you feel the need to, Your partner damn well better honor them! Now that I have clearly stated my position on the subject, there are a few things I have seen come up and I would like to address each of them. Safe words are for submissives WRONG! In a D/s relationship, t...