Spice it up
So, at some point or another in one's kink journey, they go through the "research" phase. This is when you start scoping out for all the kink content you can find to help you get a better understand, or just expand your horizons. This is excellent! Research is extremely important to being safe. Hopefully you have read about SSC (Safe Sane Consensual) and RACK (Risk Aware Consensual Kink). In reading up on these you have learned how important it is to go into any Kink activity, fully aware and prepared. Now you have an idea of what you are looking for! This is great. How does your partner feel? Oh... You haven't talked to your partner yet? Believe me, I understand that outing yourself to your partner can be intimidating. Sure you can say "lets spice things up" but that could mean 1000x different things. For your partner "spice it up" might mean "lets do it on a week ...